That's how it happened with me and The Jerk. It just became TOO hard for him to talk to me, it was ridiculous.
Guys who can't be man enough to tell you when they want to be done aren't worth the time.
HUGE ditto, as much as it hurts you just gotta let them go.
Ok, so B likes me. Its so obvious now. He wants SO bad to have a movie night with me, and its like, i probably would like him a bit and would give him a shot if he wasn't moving two hours away. Anyhow, he is flirting much more, he is telling me im amazing, one day i had my status as "You know that I could use somebody, someone like you" and it was just a lyric from a song i was listening to, kinda reminded me of T, so i put it up. He texts me "I could use somebody like you too :)" so i kinda looked at it, did a whole "facepalm" thing and texted him saying. "uh, fyi that wasn't directed at you but awe none the less :)" or something along those lines. Everytime he flirts i have to turn it down and its starting to get old almost he gets upset if we "hardly talk" during the day. He's a sweet kid, i want him to be a close friend and nothing more, i want to be able to have movie nights with him, he makes me laugh, hes always there for me if i need someone to talk to.
I just can see this is getting weird between us, he has been soo upset lately over two girls turning him down, and then i have been there just as support to get through it. This is where i could tell he fell harder. I dont want to bring it up because i dont want to hurt him like these girls have, hes having SUCH a rough time and im scared if i sit down and talk to him that it just wont end good. I want to be able to have a movie night and not have him try anything, ugh
. What should I do? Im at a loss. Should i just tell him i care about him as a friend and nothing more and let him react as he see's fit orr just let the move and the being away from me take its toll on his feelings?
Im at the point of breaking this is stressing me out, I want to just be kinda like "hey, so you know we're just friends right?" if he says something like "yes why?" id just say "cause you've been flirting and such quite alot lately". I dont know how else to subtly turn him down and tell him I dont like him like that without hurting him.
Like, you guys know how on facebook you put the colour of your bra on your status to promote Breast cancer awareness? he texted me "Thats a good colour for a bra :)"
and yesterday i got a few new movies, status was simply "Is going to be watching movies for awhile now :) movie night!" he messaged me "Sooo when's movie night? lol" There's a bunch else that he has said, this is long enough, if you are curious feel free to send a PM, id love to have more to talk to about this lol.