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  1. I've had the WORST day ever!!

    Well, as much as I hate to say it, you all were right. I'm breaking up with my boyfriend tonight. But not cause he was rude or over the dogs, not even over anything we talked about. I have a bad feeling he is up to something he shouldn't be doing. Today I talked to him and he told me he had been drinking, among other things which I can't talk about here. I asked him where his mother was (who would never let him drink) and apparently he was at his cousin's girlfriends house who he had talked about non-stop. I thought maybe he was cheating on me with her cause when I have a bad feeling I'm rarely wrong. He also keeps calling me dawg and man like I'm just some friend. When I ask him why he says it's because he is around his brothers. x.x Can he not tell the difference between his girlfriend and his brother? : / I talked to him after that phone call a few hours later. After I though about it, I knew it was time for us to take a break and see other people atleast till him got home so we could talk face to face about our problems. But he freaked out and we started fighting. The phone sounded really bad and I could hear everyone in the background really well. But I thought it was just the phone messing up. Then in the heat of our fight he tells me we are on SPEAKER PHONE! At this point I'm totally embrassed cause I can hear his family in the background. I hung up. How could he do that me? How could he put me on speaker phone and let his whole family hear our personal business!? I packed up everything he gave me and took it to his house and left it there. I tied up the toy sheep he gave me with a rope. xD I left a note in case he never called me back so I could break up with him. So I'm waiting for him to call since he has used five different phone to call me and I have no clue who the owner of any of them are. So i can't call him and he should call any minute if he has the guts so I can break up with him. Anyone got any ideas on what I should say? Be as cruel as you like. ^^
  2. I've had the WORST day ever!!

    Well, as much as I hate to say it, you all were right. I'm breaking up with my boyfriend tonight. But not cause he was rude or over the dogs, not even over anything we talked about. I have a bad feeling he is up to something he shouldn't be doing. Today I talked to him and he told me he had been drinking, among other things which I can't talk about here. I asked him where his mother was (who would never let him drink) and apparently he was at his cousin's girlfriends house who he had talked about non-stop. I thought maybe he was cheating on me with her cause when I have a bad feeling I'm rarely wrong. He also keeps calling me dawg and man like I'm just some friend. When I ask him why he says it's because he is around his brothers. x.x Can he not tell the difference between his girlfriend and his brother? : / I talked to him after that phone call a few hours later. After I though about it, I knew it was time for us to take a break and see other people atleast till him got home so we could talk face to face about our problems. But he freaked out and we started fighting. The phone sounded really bad and I could hear everyone in the background really well. But I thought it was just the phone messing up. Then in the heat of our fight he tells me we are on SPEAKER PHONE! At this point I'm totally embrassed cause I can hear his family in the background. I hung up. How could he do that me? How could he put me on speaker phone and let his whole family hear our personal business!? I packed up everything he gave me and took it to his house and left it there. I tied up the toy sheep he gave me with a rope. xD I left a note in case he never called me back so I could break up with him. So I'm waiting for him to call since he has used five different phone to call me and I have no clue who the owner of any of them are. So i can't call him and he should call any minute if he has the guts so I can break up with him. Anyone got any ideas on what I should say? Be as cruel as you like. ^^
  3. I've had the WORST day ever!!

    quote: Originally posted by Ellies1nOnlyGrl: quote:Originally posted by Black Quarter Horse: I'd prefer to keep that to myself since I know what everyone is thinking. I believe it is prolly around the lines of 'Ohmigod this 13 year old thinks she is going to get married'. I prefer to keep personal information to myself though because some people see these differently than others. Sorrie. So no more talk about any of that please. I've said my part and I'll say no more. you make a LONG post about you boyfriend (haven't read it yet but from everyones comments that's what I'm understanding) but yet you won't say your age? I have my reasons thank you and it is up to me if I state my age or not.
  4. I've had the WORST day ever!!

    quote: Originally posted by Ellies1nOnlyGrl: quote:Originally posted by Black Quarter Horse: I'd prefer to keep that to myself since I know what everyone is thinking. I believe it is prolly around the lines of 'Ohmigod this 13 year old thinks she is going to get married'. I prefer to keep personal information to myself though because some people see these differently than others. Sorrie. So no more talk about any of that please. I've said my part and I'll say no more. you make a LONG post about you boyfriend (haven't read it yet but from everyones comments that's what I'm understanding) but yet you won't say your age? I have my reasons thank you and it is up to me if I state my age or not.
  5. I've had the WORST day ever!!

    I'd prefer to keep that to myself since I know what everyone is thinking. I believe it is prolly around the lines of 'Ohmigod this 13 year old thinks she is going to get married'. I prefer to keep personal information to myself though because some people see these differently than others. Sorrie. So no more talk about any of that please. I've said my part and I'll say no more.
  6. I've had the WORST day ever!!

    I'd prefer to keep that to myself since I know what everyone is thinking. I believe it is prolly around the lines of 'Ohmigod this 13 year old thinks she is going to get married'. I prefer to keep personal information to myself though because some people see these differently than others. Sorrie. So no more talk about any of that please. I've said my part and I'll say no more.
  7. I've had the WORST day ever!!

    quote: Originally posted by IDreamOfArabHorses: He laughs at you, he won't help you out, and he *makes* you work like a slave? Girl, get out while you can. These things can get bad.... Whoa now. Slave? Heck no. I joke with him about him being my slave since he does so many things I ask him too. In fact i've gotten kinda lazy since I started dating him. He can't help me out right now. His grandpa is dying and in the hospital. His mother made him go. He honestly wanted to stay here which I would not have allowed since he should be with his family. This isn't about bashing my boyfriend. I'm happy with my boyfriend. We are planning to get married which I said I'd never do before I met him, so I'm perfectly happy with him. Please off the subject because my boyfriend hasn't put me in danger and he asked me if I could handle it before he left. I wasn't forced too. It was the only way he could go to see his grandpa who may not live. I wanted him to be there so I told him i would take care of the dog. I know how the dog acts and how to make him stop. Today was just a mistake on my part since I wasn't watching well. I've learned and I know now. Please drop the boyfriend thing and the whole killer dog thing. You guys took it wrong and none of that is correct. This was about the dog and what I could to keep the puppies in their yard. Maybe what I could build to keep them in or how I could go about keeping people out of the ditch. The same boy just walked through the yard and into the backyard again. This time he is on private land and he can't do that. If I see him, he is going to get it. I don't care if he breeds pit bulls or girl-eating tigers. x.x
  8. I've had the WORST day ever!!

    quote: Originally posted by IDreamOfArabHorses: He laughs at you, he won't help you out, and he *makes* you work like a slave? Girl, get out while you can. These things can get bad.... Whoa now. Slave? Heck no. I joke with him about him being my slave since he does so many things I ask him too. In fact i've gotten kinda lazy since I started dating him. He can't help me out right now. His grandpa is dying and in the hospital. His mother made him go. He honestly wanted to stay here which I would not have allowed since he should be with his family. This isn't about bashing my boyfriend. I'm happy with my boyfriend. We are planning to get married which I said I'd never do before I met him, so I'm perfectly happy with him. Please off the subject because my boyfriend hasn't put me in danger and he asked me if I could handle it before he left. I wasn't forced too. It was the only way he could go to see his grandpa who may not live. I wanted him to be there so I told him i would take care of the dog. I know how the dog acts and how to make him stop. Today was just a mistake on my part since I wasn't watching well. I've learned and I know now. Please drop the boyfriend thing and the whole killer dog thing. You guys took it wrong and none of that is correct. This was about the dog and what I could to keep the puppies in their yard. Maybe what I could build to keep them in or how I could go about keeping people out of the ditch. The same boy just walked through the yard and into the backyard again. This time he is on private land and he can't do that. If I see him, he is going to get it. I don't care if he breeds pit bulls or girl-eating tigers. x.x
  9. I've had the WORST day ever!!

    Yes, I asked for your advice and I really want to thank you guys for your help. But there is no reason to leave my boyfriend over a dog. I've never seen the dog bite anyone but I've been told he has. He lets my sister come around him but with the house being empty he may try to keep the house safe and hurt her. I'm opening a dog training business and I know how to break him of this habit, it's just it takes longer than a week. I'm strong enough to hold him back it's just that person showed up out of nowhere and I took him out if the backyard so he would not hurt anyone. How was I suppose to know some stupid boy was going to walk into the backyard. I had some goats and horses do the same thing the dog did and they were much bigger than the dog. yes, i had to get down on the ground to hold the dog but I wasn't hugging to keep him back. I got on the ground because I had to use all my weight to stop him and the ground was too muddy to stand up a do it without slipping. My boyfriend really didn't feel safe leaving me with the dog, but I know I can take care of it. I feel you guys took me completely wrong because my boyfriend wouldn't leave me with the dog if he thought it would kill me. I've the seen dog run up to people like that and then just smell them and do nothing, but i couldn't take that chance. I think I can handle it for a week now. I had to think about some stuff and I got up the guts to go and take the dog out again. I feel better about it now really. That I've thought it over. I was just really freaked out and mad that some stupid person would put themselves in that danger and even have the nerve to CALL the dog towards them. My boyfriend has never seen me around any animals but dogs, cats, and hamsters so he doesn't realize how much I can really do and how I can really take care of myself. He is always says I'm too sissy to do things or just doesn't believe in me. It's cause he has never seen me do it and why should he believe a tiny little girl like me? He is just a normal guy and thinks I need him here all the time to save me from things, when I've been in much worse. I was mad that he laughed at me before but I know he must have been thinking I was completely grossed out that a dog peed on me and that I had to get muddy. He looks at me as a girly girl and I'm not. So he is pretty much think I'm in the middle of his yard cursing cause I'm mudddy and have a broken nail. x.x [ 05-09-2007, 02:43 PM: Message edited by: Black Quarter Horse ]
  10. I've had the WORST day ever!!

    Yes, I asked for your advice and I really want to thank you guys for your help. But there is no reason to leave my boyfriend over a dog. I've never seen the dog bite anyone but I've been told he has. He lets my sister come around him but with the house being empty he may try to keep the house safe and hurt her. I'm opening a dog training business and I know how to break him of this habit, it's just it takes longer than a week. I'm strong enough to hold him back it's just that person showed up out of nowhere and I took him out if the backyard so he would not hurt anyone. How was I suppose to know some stupid boy was going to walk into the backyard. I had some goats and horses do the same thing the dog did and they were much bigger than the dog. yes, i had to get down on the ground to hold the dog but I wasn't hugging to keep him back. I got on the ground because I had to use all my weight to stop him and the ground was too muddy to stand up a do it without slipping. My boyfriend really didn't feel safe leaving me with the dog, but I know I can take care of it. I feel you guys took me completely wrong because my boyfriend wouldn't leave me with the dog if he thought it would kill me. I've the seen dog run up to people like that and then just smell them and do nothing, but i couldn't take that chance. I think I can handle it for a week now. I had to think about some stuff and I got up the guts to go and take the dog out again. I feel better about it now really. That I've thought it over. I was just really freaked out and mad that some stupid person would put themselves in that danger and even have the nerve to CALL the dog towards them. My boyfriend has never seen me around any animals but dogs, cats, and hamsters so he doesn't realize how much I can really do and how I can really take care of myself. He is always says I'm too sissy to do things or just doesn't believe in me. It's cause he has never seen me do it and why should he believe a tiny little girl like me? He is just a normal guy and thinks I need him here all the time to save me from things, when I've been in much worse. I was mad that he laughed at me before but I know he must have been thinking I was completely grossed out that a dog peed on me and that I had to get muddy. He looks at me as a girly girl and I'm not. So he is pretty much think I'm in the middle of his yard cursing cause I'm mudddy and have a broken nail. x.x [ 05-09-2007, 02:43 PM: Message edited by: Black Quarter Horse ]
  11. I've had the WORST day ever!!

    quote: Originally posted by Char: Sweetie - you need to tell you boyfriend to take care of his own dogs or ask somebody else. You are setting youself up for a lawsuit if something happens while you are watching them. Do not walk. Run away from this guy and his problems. Char See I would make he care take of his own dogs or get someone else if it was an option. No one else can get near the dog but me and his family. His grandpa is currently in the hospital and the doctors says he is dying. All of his family went to Iowa too. So I am the only one who can take care of him. The dog wouldn't be a problem if people did walk in the ditch and there is snakes back there anyways. I don't understand why you would want to walk back there anyways. I know what to do if the dog does it again and I can make him stop. It's just scary for me and it's stressing me out. My boyfriend is normally very nice but we have been having problems lately. It's been hard on both of us. I'm just under tons of stress right now and it doesn't help to be laughed at when you are scared to death you are going to get someone's dogs killed. It only takes one second for those puppies to run out into the road and become road kill.
  12. I've had the WORST day ever!!

    quote: Originally posted by Char: Sweetie - you need to tell you boyfriend to take care of his own dogs or ask somebody else. You are setting youself up for a lawsuit if something happens while you are watching them. Do not walk. Run away from this guy and his problems. Char See I would make he care take of his own dogs or get someone else if it was an option. No one else can get near the dog but me and his family. His grandpa is currently in the hospital and the doctors says he is dying. All of his family went to Iowa too. So I am the only one who can take care of him. The dog wouldn't be a problem if people did walk in the ditch and there is snakes back there anyways. I don't understand why you would want to walk back there anyways. I know what to do if the dog does it again and I can make him stop. It's just scary for me and it's stressing me out. My boyfriend is normally very nice but we have been having problems lately. It's been hard on both of us. I'm just under tons of stress right now and it doesn't help to be laughed at when you are scared to death you are going to get someone's dogs killed. It only takes one second for those puppies to run out into the road and become road kill.
  13. I've had the WORST day ever!!

    xD He has been being a jerk lately. But I've had PMS, so yeah. He had no right to tell me I need to do more when I take better care of the dogs than he does. Everyone has told me that I take way better care of the dogs than he ever did and I know it's true. He takes the dog out maybe three to four times a day. I take the dog out six to seven times a day AND watch the puppies more than him. I also take care of my own pets and do everything I need to around the house. x.x I don't understand how he can tell me I'm doing something wrong. I took the dog out an hour earlier than he normally does and I'm the worst person ever. But the dog didn't even need to go to the bathroom anymore since I had taken him out so much and when my boyfriend takes care of him the dog uses the floor as a bathroom. x.x I would get a new boyfriend if my boyfriend was like this all the time.
  14. I've had the WORST day ever!!

    xD He has been being a jerk lately. But I've had PMS, so yeah. He had no right to tell me I need to do more when I take better care of the dogs than he does. Everyone has told me that I take way better care of the dogs than he ever did and I know it's true. He takes the dog out maybe three to four times a day. I take the dog out six to seven times a day AND watch the puppies more than him. I also take care of my own pets and do everything I need to around the house. x.x I don't understand how he can tell me I'm doing something wrong. I took the dog out an hour earlier than he normally does and I'm the worst person ever. But the dog didn't even need to go to the bathroom anymore since I had taken him out so much and when my boyfriend takes care of him the dog uses the floor as a bathroom. x.x I would get a new boyfriend if my boyfriend was like this all the time.
  15. I've had the WORST day ever!!

    This has to be the worst day ever... My boyfriend left yesterday to go to Iowa for a week or more and left me here to take care of his four dogs. The male dog, Jax is known for biting people and dogs and also lunging at them. So I told them I'd take him outside in the backyard to use the bathroom away from people and the other three dogs. The other dog is a girl and she had two puppies. They can now walk and keep trying to walk into the street since their yard isn't fenced in. I live across the street and every two to three hours I go to take Jax outside and check on the puppies. But this morning my mom wakes me up a 6:00 AM to go check on them. All seems okay and take Jax outside. I went back to sleep and went to check on them again. My boyfriend told me to move the puppies to my backyard which is fenced in to keep them from going into the street. I did and they whined and barked and screamed for the mother dog until I had to take them back across the street after they tried to swim in the water bowls and rolled in mud. Then a loose dog that my neighbor owns who never keeps their dog inside comes trotting up. And it tried to go by the mom dog and her puppies. The mother dog has attacked dogs before and I scared the other dog off before he got too close. Then he comes up to me and goes running back to a cat he has cornered. He does this about five times. Finally he left. Then two pit bull puppies come up the street and I scared one off. I knew who the owner was and a lady had come out of the house where the dogs lived. So I asked her to call them but she said she would go get the owner. The other puppy keeps growling at the mom dog and acting like it wants to fight. So I had to pick it up and it growled at me. Now I'm thinking it's going to bite me and the owner finally comes and she tried to call the dog. But the dog inches closer to the mom dog and then I just grabbed it up and ran it to the owner before it could bite me. When I went back to my house I noticed it peed on my leg. x.x A change of clothes later, my boyfriend calls to see how things are and I tell him what a bad day I've been having. Then he tells me I need to take Jax out at ten o' clock at night and that him and his mom think I took him out the last time the night before too early. Now I'm really mad since my boyfriend doesn't care, wants me to do even more, and is laughing at me. I march over to his house to take Jax out again. I'm waiting for the dog to finish his business and a boy comes out of nowhere and is in the ditch behind my boyfriend's house. Jax takes off running towards the boy and is pulling me along. The only thing I could think to do is put all my weight down. So I leap forward and I'm laying on the ground with the boy laughing at me. AND then he tries to call the dog who wants to kill him. X.X I yell to him and tell him not to call him because he will hurt him and he says I raise pit bulls I'm not worried about that dog. At this point I'm ubber angry. I told him I was worried because he wasn't my dog and I was taking care of him for someone else. He started to walk off so I got up and Jax takes off again. I landed on my knees this time to try and stop him. It worked but now my knees are torn up, I'm scared to death, and I have a big problem. What should I do? I mean it's been one day and things are falling apart. I don't think I'm going to tell my boyfriend about the dog dragging me because he'll laugh and then think I'm too much of a sissy to take care of him. I'm not. It's just I'm afraid the dog may hurt someone or me. Today I stopped him pretty quick but what if I can't and he runs away or something? My boyfriend has no one else who knows the dog well enough to take care of him, only I and his family can get near him. HELP!