I have someone warm up the horses after te first for me on the longe line, then I ride and hand off to a groom to cool out. I have a tutor who helps me study and keep my grades up during school because I have ADD and ADHD. But during the summer I do the same riding regime as the school year, except I warm up all the horses but have a groom cool them down and cool hose them down or give them a liniment sponge bath. My grooms aren't treated like crap, I just make them work for the good price we pay them. And they like it, are very polite and always greet me warmly at the lobby of the barn. And as for the bf, he is always complaining I don't spend enough time with him as I do with my horses.